Pierre Poilievre’s Conservatives are behind in the polls, but they’re getting absolutely trounced when it comes to women voters. Some of this is a result of Poilievre’s proximity to Donald Trump, both in tone and policy. Some is a function of his inherently — and often proudly — abrasive personality. But some has to be because he keeps talking and behaving in ways that could best be described as, well, “incel-adjacent.”
Witness his recent comment on housing affordability, where he referenced “the couple whose biological clock is running out faster than they can afford to buy a home and have kids.” There’s no question that rising home prices in key markets like Vancouver and Toronto make it more difficult for young couples — and, increasingly, not-so-young ones — to have children. It’s equally true that the far bigger constraint is the cost of childcare, one the federal government has addressed over the past few years over objections from people like Poilievre.
But if you were trying to sound less like a MAGA Republican — and Poilievre absolutely should be right now if he wants to salvage his floundering campaign — talking about biological clocks isn’t the way to do it. If anything, it might be one of the worst ways to do it. That’s because the Trump administration and the key figures leading it are part of the broader pronatalist movement that has consumed and captured much of the political right. That includes Elon Musk, who just happens to have (at least, as of the most recent count) 14 children from four different mothers. Trump, meanwhile, just celebrated Women’s History Month by describing himself as “the fertilization president” because of his support for IVF treatment.
As Politico’s Gaby Del Valle wrote in a story on last year’s first-ever Natal Conference, “various factions of the old and the new right have coalesced around the idea that babies might be the cure for everything that’s wrong with society, in the United States and other parts of the developed West.” As it happens, some of these pronatalists are also interested in “curing” things like economic freedom for women and immigration from non-white countries. “Pronatalism typically combines concerns about falling birth rates with anti-immigration and anti-feminist ideas,” the New Yorker’s Margaret Talbot wrote last August.
It’s worth pointing out that more than half of the drop in America’s fertility rate since 1990 is a result of the decline in teenage pregnancies. The same is surely true in every country where birth rates are declining, which is also to say in every country. Some of them — France, South Korea, Singapore and Japan, for example — have tried implementing pro-natalist policies like tax breaks for families and direct cash transfers for new babies. The evidence so far suggests that the many billions being spent by those governments haven’t moved the needle at all.
It also underscores the folly in Poilievre’s apparent belief that the housing market is solely or singularly responsible for people delaying their decision to have kids. Even so, this is hardly his first foray into the subject of biological clocks. As he told True North journalist Andrew Lawton, who wrote a mostly favourable biography of Poilievre and just happens to now be a CPC candidate, “if you can’t afford a house until you’re 42 years old, well, let’s be blunt: a woman’s biological clock is almost run out by that time.”
He might have gotten a pass here if his track record on the broader issue of women’s rights wasn’t so mixed. As Evan Scrimshaw noted on his Substack, “this guy tagged every one of his YouTube videos with an incel hashtag for years. He’s someone who admits to going down YouTube rabbit holes when he sleeps. He’s someone who spends a lot of time in male-dominated spaces online. That doesn’t inherently make you a sexist … but it does run the risk of making you forget that not everybody talks the way you do.” The fact that Poilievre keeps getting praise from kings of the manosphere like Jordan Peterson, Joe Rogan, and Musk doesn’t exactly help him here.
This is the fundamental challenge that Poilievre faces right now. In the latest EKOS sounding, Mark Carney has a 25 point lead over Poilievre among women voters, while Angus Reid pegged it at a mere 19 point spread. This makes the gender gap between Donald Trump and Kamala Harris in the recent American election — one that was supposed to be a major impediment to Trump’s chances — look positively pedestrian by comparison.
This is a direct result of what Poilievre has spent the last two-plus years sowing. More than any leader in Canadian political history, he has built much of his support in spaces and places — many of them online — that are disproportionately dominated by young men, whether that’s cryptocurrency or mixed-martial arts.
It’s no coincidence that those spaces were also disproportionately supportive of Donald Trump. Speaking their language has helped Poilievre build momentum, win the leadership of his party, and dominate the online political discourse in Canada. That it could also cost him the election he so desperately wants to win is an irony worthy of Shakespeare.
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Poilievre is up to a lot of things all at once in this campaign and it is vital that he be called out on as many as can be. His Con reformed party has successfully shut down a program designed to correct mis/disinformation and they shut it down fast. That story alone should be on the front page of every main stream media in the country.
https://pressprogress.ca/ctv-cancelled-a-fact-checking-segment-in-respo…
Poilievre would not allow Journalists on his campaign trail. First time ever.
I honestly feel his whole campaign is one big trick pony show. No real feelings for what comes out of his mouth
How many of the Trump statements, catch phrases will Poilievre have used before people realize they are both using the same playbook..
If Pierre Poilievre was sincerely interested in helping young couples he would not have voted against the Canada Child Benefit and the Affordable Daycare programs. Actions speak much louder than throw away 3 word slogans.
This is all skipping over how weird it is for anybody with European relatives, whom they watched grow up in 4-storey buildings, and are now watching them raise their own kids in a 4-story building, and know that SFD is just not a necessity.
I live in West End Vancouver, with very full schools, most of the kids living in multi-family.
http://brander.ca/doraspage/20250309.html
...links from that page to my shots of Plaza Chamberi, Madrid, full of happy children.
A very astute comment.
I would add that Vancouver has run out of land and, by necessity, now has to infill all those large lots protected for generations by SFD zoning as well as converting underutilized industrial land to new housing in mixed use high density development that include schools.
In addition, 40% of West End residents have never owned cars. In my opinion, SFD on big open lots and monolithic zoning for single use subdivisions that necessitate near total car dependency should be declared obsolete.
This is especially relevant in cities that are as geographically constrained as Metro Vancouver, which has had to practice innovative planning policies using rapid transit as a driver for strategic control over demographic growth.
Believe me, should this stupid trade war with the US get bad enough to slow or stop the flow of food to Canada, we will be seriously looking at protecting the abundant food producing land bordering most of our cities just to secure our own food supply with market gardens and vast arrays of greenhouses. Gobbling up thousands of hectares of productive farm land for mass monozoned subdivisions filled with extremely inefficient SFDs riven with freeways and dead worm cul de sacs will be seen, as James Kunstler once put it, as one of the most egregious misallocation of resources ever performed in modern history.
I think the male/female contrast may be driven by something else, ultimately. It's hard to measure, but I'm convinced that the root cause here is that the non-asshole vote is breaking strongly away from Pierre Poilievre, and unfortunately for my gender it just so happens because of traditonal "guy" culture that a lot more guys are assholes.
"A lot more" is understatement though; these assholes put Trump into power.
Joe Rogan had 114 MILLION followers last I read; probably more now.
Sorry, but the male/female contrast is real. You sound like the disgruntled former Progressive Conservatives insisting that this bunch of cons aren't ACTUAL conservatives.
Excuse me?! I called my own gender a bunch of assholes and that's NOT GOOD ENOUGH FOR YOU?!
I realize you're annoyed at me because I've called out your cynicism before, but come on.
Poilievre's contradiction tells a story.
Speaking about growing familes and biological clocks on one day then voting against affordable public daycare the next is obviously a knock against empowering independent women.
It's even a knock against sound economic planning. Subsidized childcare allows mainly women (some men do take on the parenting role too, but not historically) to reinter the workforce, earn a taxable income and generate tax revenue that exceeds the the cost of subsidized childcare.
What is this obsession about keeping women at home to look after the kids? Why not inspire cities, provinces and companies to provide regulated childcare at or near their workplaces? Most parents would leap at the chance at having $10/day professional childcare close enough to have workday lunches with their kids, or at least not have to drive km away from work or home to deliver the kids to daycare.
Poilievre speaks from a place of deeply entrenched entitlement, a place women easily recognize and would vouch for. It's characterized by being so entrenched as to be subconscious.
More males are autistic; there is clearly something about the male brain that skews it to the right politically that coordinates with how many video gamers are male, and podcasters, and prisoners, and serial killers, and suicidal, etc. etc.
I think the current deep political divisions are a distillation of basic sexual differences in the face of dynamic societal changes over time that have revived sexism along with racism.
Liberals represent what the fundamentally more insecure cons see as "woke," a.k.a. feminization of society which gives women more power, absolute anathema to them.
Remember what Margaret Atwood said, "Women are afraid men will kill them while men are afraid women will laugh at them." Women know this, but still love their sons and husbands, right up until the latter murder them i.e., which still happens with shocking regularity, and speaks volumes.